Note: I realize making gender based generalization can be considered sexist and in some cases assuming, however, it is worthy to note that no demographic is 100% true to stereotypes and outliers certainly do exist.
I’m sure you’ve seen the book “Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus.” There is a reason that book withstood the test of time and sold billions of copies: there is a lot of truth to the title. For the longest time, I thought that women assessed things like I did… I really did. I thought that a women went through the same mental processes when contemplating a mate. Surely they did the same logical assessments as me!
I can’t tell you the exact moment that I realized this assumption was completely false, but I can tell you that it felt like walking into the bright summer day from a pitch black room.
This distinction is a HUGE key to massive success with women.
Put simply, their brains are not wired like mens. She is, first and foremost, an EMOTIONAL creature. You, the male reader, are first and foremost a LOGICAL being.
Men are stupid and try to court and convince women into bed by following a logical path. For example, “If I buy this women dinner and gifts, then she will sleep with me.” Notice the “if, then” statement. This is a sure sign of logic.
I can’t take credit for this, but I read once that you have to change her mood, not her mind. This is golden advice.
When she says “I don’t want to have sex, I’m too tired,” your natural response is likely to give her compelling logical reasons why she would want to have sex and why she isn’t as tired as she thinks. However, this is not the best course of action.
Whenever you hit resistance on the road to getting laid, going logical is only going to fuck you up. Your goal is to get her FEELING different, or in other words, changing her state. What can you do that makes her feel horny? Is there a certain song or type of music to which she likes to dance sexy? What about the way you are touching her?
Look guy, turn off your logical brain, and start paying attention to how she is feeling. Her mood is what is going to determine what happens.
